All problems are created in the mind… 
11 Oct

All problems are created in the mind… 

Know this for sure…All problems are created in the mind. Unfortunately, most people live life in their mind rather than experience life itself. This is where our suffering originates. What would it be like to be free from the limitations that keep you stuck? I’ve spent years developing the “Breaking Free Process” for my clients and offering it in my book… “Breaking Free from the Ego: A Course in Finding Read More

Are you ever afraid to tell the truth?
25 Feb

Are you ever afraid to tell the truth?

Are you afraid to tell the truth? Too many of us are in a habit of not telling the truth for fear of rejection, so we say yes when we really want or need to say no.  No one gains when we don’t tell the truth.  Our yes’s should be yes’s and our no’s should be no’s.  When we say yes, when it’s really no, we lose, others lose, and Read More

Here’s the good news: You can learn how to stop taking things personal
14 Aug

Here’s the good news: You can learn how to stop taking things personal

You can learn how to stop taking things personal. Yes, you can learn how to stop taking things personal.  The key to not taking things personally is to know who you truly are, so you can love and accept yourself no matter what.  In order to heal the unmet need you feel inside that you are seeking outside, you must connect to your own inner spiritual identity.  The more you Read More

Do you seek approval in others and make yourself easy prey?
25 Jul

Do you seek approval in others and make yourself easy prey?

You can learn how to take back your inner authority, so you won’t ever feel vulnerable again.   Did you know we only seek outside reinforcement or approval from others when we’re not ok with ourselves?  It feels like something’s missing and we think the answer is outside us.  That’s what makes us easy prey to those who are unkind and unloving.  Let’s look closer at how you can take back Read More

Could fear be your greatest teacher? Part 1
31 Mar

Could fear be your greatest teacher? Part 1

Fear has been my greatest teacher…what about you? Is fear the driving force in your life? Do you listen to the voice of fear or doubt that often turns a perfectly wonderful day upside down?  For most people, fear seems to hold them back from living a peaceful and fulfilled life.  Yet, despite its challenges, it can be one of our greatest teachers.  It’s been mine and today I couldn’t Read More

What is true love, really? Does anyone know…
13 Feb

What is true love, really? Does anyone know…

Did you know that love is the most powerful word in the English language, yet most of us don’t know what true love really is, much less how to express it?   Did you also know love is the most misused, overused, and abused word?  It’s no wonder we’re confused.  It does get a little murky.  I googled the definition online and love was described as an intense feeling of Read More

I’ve been seeking lasting, inner peace most my life…What about you?
29 Jan

I’ve been seeking lasting, inner peace most my life…What about you?

Research tells us that people who live in inner peace are healthier and happier.  So, let’s take a closer look at what inner peace really is, what it isn’t and why it even matters.  True, inner peace is a deep sense of well-being, state of mental & spiritual calm, where one lives in harmony with themselves, others and the world.  It isn’t a state of passivity, and certainly not a Read More

Do you have an inner critic bullying you?
17 Nov

Do you have an inner critic bullying you?

Is your inner bully getting the best of you…the voice that says you’re “not good enough” & never seems to shut up?   Do you allow others to talk to you the way you let your inner critic talk to you?  How often do you notice your inner critic making self-rejecting judgments or bullying you?  What is your bully saying to you?  Below are some examples of common self-judgments that Read More

It’s taken me most of my life to feel good enough…what about you?
23 Sep

It’s taken me most of my life to feel good enough…what about you?

Not good enough yet?  Do you ever feel like you’re just not good enough or that you’re split in half and need something else to be whole?   Well, I have and it’s taken years to reclaim the wholeness in being good enough that was once mine.  Not being clear on my true identity had created a painful and vulnerable way of life.  Realizing and then being willing to live Read More

Do you know how to protect you from you?
2 Aug

Do you know how to protect you from you?

Do you know how to protect you from you? Did you know that we need healthy boundaries to protect ourselves from ourselves? That’s right. The most important boundaries you will ever have are the boundaries you have with yourself. Yes, we’re actually getting in our own way. A mind without healthy boundaries, is a mind out-of-control. We end up creating the pain that brings about an insatiable desire for external Read More