It’s taken me most of my life to feel good enough…what about you?
23 Sep

It’s taken me most of my life to feel good enough…what about you?

Not good enough yet???  Do you ever feel like you’re just not good enough or that you’re split in half and need something else to be whole?   Well, I have and it’s taken years to reclaim the wholeness in being good enough that was once mine.  Not being clear on my true identity had created a painful and vulnerable way of life.  Realizing and then being willing to live Read More

Do you know how to protect you from you?
2 Aug

Do you know how to protect you from you?

Do you know how to protect you from you? Did you know that we need healthy boundaries to protect ourselves from ourselves? That’s right. The most important boundaries you will ever have are the boundaries you have with yourself. Yes, we’re actually getting in our own way. A mind without healthy boundaries, is a mind out-of-control. We end up creating the pain that brings about an insatiable desire for external Read More

Do you have a noisy mind?…It just might be ruining your life! Part 2
2 Jun

Do you have a noisy mind?…It just might be ruining your life! Part 2

Do you have a noisy mind? It just might be ruining your life! Would you like an off button for your thoughts? If so, ask yourself these questions: Do your thoughts have power over you or are you in charge? Are you trapped in mind chatter that keeps you stuck in negativity, judgment, comparison, or rejection? Do you feel afraid, worried, trapped, or out-of-control? Are your thoughts creating unnecessary suffering Read More

Do you have a noisy mind?…It just might be ruining your life! Part 1
1 Jun

Do you have a noisy mind?…It just might be ruining your life! Part 1

Do you have a noisy mind? It just might be ruining your life. Here’s why… Ask yourself these questions: Do you have an off button for your thoughts? Do you have the authority over your thoughts? Are you in the driver’s seat of your life? If not, do you want to take back that authority?  Did you know, that thoughts cause most of our suffering & it’s unnecessary?  It’s not Read More

Do you struggle with false guilt?
2 May

Do you struggle with false guilt?

Do you struggle with false guilt? Who hasn’t struggles with guilt? Yet, neither true guilt nor false guilt is good for our well-being. When was the last time you turned down a dinner invitation…from family or friends? How did you go about saying no? What did it feel like to say no? Did you feel any guilt? If so, how long did the guilt linger?  Have you ever thought about Read More

Do you want to break free?
22 Feb

Do you want to break free?

Do you want to break free? I was working with a client recently who was having trouble saying no to her friend’s request to move in with her.  As a result, she agreed to let her move in and they both ended up miserable….no longer valuing their friendship.  Rather than feeling fear, obligation, guilt & resentment towards her friend, she took charge of her life and made the decision to Read More